My story doesn't work that way. I doubt yours does either. We are woven from more than we know — every grief, every grace, every ordinary Tuesday that turned into something sacred.
My life verse is John 15:16:
"You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit — fruit that will last."
When I read that verse, I hear it personally. Julie, I chose you. I didn't just choose you — I appointed you. I want you to go and bear fruit that is eternal in nature. I love you — Jesus.
That is my directive in everything I am and everything I do.
I've been married for 45 years — not a perfect marriage, but a faithful one. One where we have learned to actually know each other, choose each other, and work through what needs to be worked through.
I know what a long marriage costs. I know what it's worth. I see that as eternal fruit.
I have four sons. Three served in the military — one is now retired — and one is a police officer. If you want to know what it means to truly lay your Isaac down, try releasing a child into harm's way and trusting God with what you cannot control. I pray differently because of my sons.
Faith is not the absence of fear. It's what you do with the fear. That is eternal fruit.
I've watched my parents near the end of their lives and walked them toward it. That kind of loss doesn't leave you — it changes you. It softens things that needed softening and clarifies things that needed to be clear.
I know the ache of missing people who shaped you. I carry them forward.
I have ten grandchildren. Together we have hidden little Jesuses for people to find — to be encouraged, to smile. We paint rocks, say prayers at night, FaceTime just to talk.
That is fruit I did not earn. I just get to hold it.
And I've spent nearly 50 years helping people bridge the gap between where they are and where God is calling them to be — in business, in ministry, in leadership, in their own sense of who they are and what they're here to do. I've bought and sold businesses. I've helped struggling owners find their footing. I've coached men and women building something from nothing. I've sat with marriages in trouble and watched them find their way back. I don't think faith and strategy are separate. I never have. Faith without direction is just a wish. Strategy without faith is just ambition. But put them together — help someone build something truly rooted in who God made them to be — and that's when things last.
That is eternal fruit.
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There is also a chapter of my story where I gave everything I had to a church and got hurt inside it. That chapter is real, and it's why I wrote Wounded in the House of Friends. But it is one chapter. Not the whole book.
I wrote At His Feet, In His Service because I kept hearing women say they were a Martha who wished she were Mary — and something about that felt wrong to me. So I studied, I prayed, and what I learned became a book and a course. I wrote Build Better because I watched nonprofits and ministry leaders struggle with the back office when all they wanted was to do what they were called to do — and business principles could help them get there.
What comes next? Only God knows my next chapter, my next page.
But I know one thing: He appointed me for fruit that lasts.
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If you're here because you're hurting, I see you.
If you're here because you're building something, I see you too.
If you're both — which is most of us — you're in exactly the right place.
I'm not a tidy story. I'm a full one. And I believe you are too.
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